We’ve all been in the situation where we’ve met someone new but have this immediate and deep connection – sometimes to the point of being able to anticipate what they are going to say next – or feeling as if they’ve been in our life forever.Often this can mean they have been in a spiritual sense as this kind of ‘instant karma’ we feel with certain people is exactly that.The concept may seem flighty, dreamy and unrealistic.Life circumstance, timing, availability, security and many other factors may all influence our relationship choices…BUT…Chances are if you are open, ready and blessed enough to meet a Soul Mate in this life time it will happen unanticipated and unexpected. Describing how a soul mate makes you feel is difficult.The old adage "When you know, you know" rings true when it comes to a soulmate connection."There really is no guessing or wondering when the real thing comes along," wedding officiant and author Rev. "There is usually a telltale sign that lets you know when true love has arrived -– a voice in your head, a sense of recognition or a gut feeling that this is someone special to you." ..the electricity that you feel doesn't just happen on a sexual level.It can feel unsettling, destabilizing and ungrounding because it is a different connection than any other you have had. But they usually leave you appreciative and often breathless. There is a catch to encountering these deep connections. And then when, and if, they do come along, you are ready to sizzle. Read on and without over-analyzing, ask yourself — soul mate or life partner? It’s a tenacious, profound and lingering emotion which no words can encompass.2. If your partner is your soul mate, chances are he or she has been present in your past lives.There are no words or explanations that can clearly articulate such a connection. Before you can go to this depth and even be brave enough to notice it, you first must love yourself. You might even feel an odd sense of déjà vu, as if the moment in time has already taken place, perhaps a long time ago, perhaps in a different setting.3. Ever met two people who finish each others sentences?
There is no matter of space or time, you have found your way to one another. You step back to catch your breath because deep down you know this is special. The one you hear whisper when they think about you. These beautiful soul reminders may too, just pop into our lives temporarily to remind us of what we have been forgetting; our writing, singing, creating, imagining, dancing or living. Sure, a soul mate can remind, inspire and certainly enhance your life but no one can be your happiness — but YOU. You might experience this with your best friend or your mother, but it is the telltale sign of a soul mate when you experience it with your partner.4. No relationship is perfect, and even soul mate relationships will experience ups and downs. Soul mates have an easier time of accepting, even learning to love, each others imperfections.5. A soul mate relationship may be more intense than normal relationships, in both good and sometimes bad ways.
This is another trigger on how to recognize your soulmate. As a karmic astrologer, I take an active approach to my own soul growth.
Do you re-create the same relationship in different people again and again?
So, this all this in mind, what are the signs we should look for in even our most challenging relationships that we may have a strong past life connection with someone? If you’re being challenged in some way – either positively or even negatively, this is one sign that there is an important soul connection here.
The bigger the challenge and the more you have to grow on a soul level to meet it, then the number of lifetimes you have spent with this person increases.
We hear about it, read about it and some of us are lucky enough to experience it. Some people, not ever encountering a soul mate or soul connection, settle down with a life partner. They are often built on mutual trust, respect and friendship.