There are way too many of us who jump from one relationship to the next, completely uncomfortable with the idea of being alone. What is great is to be comfortable, confident and happy on your own before you embark on a relationship.You've been dating six months and just know you are exclusive.
Besides, so much luck was involved in my finding my match that there are probably more alternate universes where I'm still living solo than where I'm married.Don't ask your friends to tell you everything they can because you can end up with a tainted view of what to expect.Half the fun of going out is getting to know someone new, so allow yourself to let that happen organically." —Oliver B."Please don't compare us to your exes—out loud or even in your head. However, if you live in Chicago, Atlanta, Houston or Miami, you could also be correct. Like many other women living in San Francisco, I'm intelligent, career-driven, highly motivated, attractive and (yes, you probably guessed it) single. If you live in New York, Los Angeles, San Francisco, or Boston, you could be right. As you mature and date more, however, you realize what's inside a person is more important than what is outside.We've lived in four cities together, and we share our home, our creative work and our dreams with each other. Julie Spira Author, Online Dating and Netiquette Expert, CEO of Cyber-Dating Expert, Media Personality, and Author of the Bestseller, "The Perils of Cyber-Dating: Confessions of a Hopeful Romantic Looking for Love Online." Doing things on my own felt awkward and almost embarrassing at first, but over the course of time I have learned to embrace my own company.